The other day, I
happened to read an absurd ad-article, which was published on the first page
of a prominent news paper. The heading of article was ‘No Shave, No lipstick. It was written there that more than 80% girls don’t like man with stubble or
beard.
And these women have
started a movement which they are calling, ‘No Shave, No Lipstick Movement’. Many
divas of bollywood have associated themselves with this ‘No Shave, No Lipstick
Movement, they say that man look best when ‘clean-shaven’, and unless man shave
daily, they won’t wear lipstick.
I find this issue
worth discussing, for I feel, in today’s time where relationship between man
and woman are hitting the bottom rock every now and then, it would be worth
while to make a conscious effort to understand the complexity of the matter
which is accountable for more than 90% problems in the world.
Here, I would like
to shed light on two vital points, First, it might be shocking for you to know
but, if you ask a psychologist, they would say, women with this sort of mindset
(where they like well-groomed man), are either lesbian or sexually perverted,
because knowingly or unknowingly, their unconscious interest is in the women
only, They are not attracted in opposite sex, more or less, they are interested
in the same sex.
There are woman
whom you would find behaving like man, they prefer to dress like man, and they
chose the same career option which men chose. And, in it’s enthusiasm to out perform
men, they adopt all kind of stupid things from man, they smoke, they drink and abuse. In
addition to all these, they even start feeling and thinking like man. And, in
long run, they become nothing but ‘A-Second-Grad-Man’. They think this पागलपन is growth, but, it is any thing but growth. In fact, it is degradation.
Here, it will be
helpful to know that, difference between man and woman is not of quality but of
quantity. No man is absolutely man and
vice versa. In every man something of woman exists and so is the case with woman.
Second thing which
I would like to bring to notice is, its not that only women think that man look
best when clean-shaven; even most men (it would be right to call them
Second-Grad-Woman) believe that they look their best when clean-shaven, and
start decorating themselves like woman.
This is really a neurotic
society; here a woman is respected and accepted only when she becomes ‘Second-Grad-Man’. And this ‘पागलपन’ is known as women-emancipation-movement.
In a healthy
society, woman would be respected as woman; they would be loved and cared as they
are. A woman should grow as woman, because only then, she can flower, and have
satisfaction in life.
Woman and man
should look as different as possible, but yes, there should not be any
discrimination, they both are ultimate manifestation of nature, nobody is
lesser or higher. In the name of change, we are killing the beauty of life. No
change is needed, only growth is required. What we do in the name of change..., we just shift prisoners from one jail to another.
Healthy mind is
attracted to opposite only. Attraction is always between to opposite poles. Man
and woman both are beautiful; there is no need for a woman to be like man. Why should
they…? What is lacking in them….?
Last thing, who
tells these ugly women to color their lips with lipstick…... to have natural read-lips,
is one thing, but to color them with lipstick is sick, only sick woman does so.
At the end, I would
like to repeat......, those women who are interested in clean-shaven man are Lesbian,
and those men who are interested in these Second-Grad-Woman, are Gay..!
Very true and Very nice
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